Why Guys and Girls Are Different?

I was browsing through Cathy's older posts and I found this. Please allow me to quote. Hope you don't mind Cathy :) Here it is:

"Why girls get period pain?

and not guys? *because guys don't get period???=.="*

Why women have to bear the pain while giving birth?

and not men?

Why girls have to do all the house chores?

and not guys?

It's unfair, isn't it?

Guys are still being treated as man of the house.

whatever they say, we can only nod and still nod..

DISCRIMINATION *shakes head* "

~Cathy C.

There must be reasons why there are males and females in this world. It's a balance. Let me simplify the main behaviors of both males and females.

Males: strong and aggressive. good at single-tasking.

Females: gentle and sensitive. good at multitasking.

Guys can be a real jerk if they want to and girls can never be a jerk. A jerk is a person who is heartless, merciless, selfish, mean and self-centered. In this world, we need such "jerk" in order to survive. Guys sometimes can be so work-oriented that what they care about is winning and getting the results they want. They would do anything just to get what they want. Girls on the other hand, sees everything in a whole and usually makes decision that benefits everyone. Girls can never be mean human beings like guys does.

I always hear that girls can do multitasking and guys can only do one thing at a time. I can never talk on the phone and chat online at the same time. It's crazy. I wonder how the girls do that. The girls can remember even the slightest detail and guys tend to be forgetful. Yes, guys can be CEO of big corporates. But when you ask those CEOs to be housewives, they would need a chef for the cooking, a babysitter for the baby, an accountant for the bills, a cleaner for the laundry, a maid for the housekeeping, an architect for the furniture and it goes on. A housewife can take care all of these by themselves alone.

Males and Females stand equally in the society. Just that we usually see male faces in the top society doesn't mean that females are not doing their part. Secretaries are usually females right? They organize everything in an arranged manner so that their male bosses can handle those things one by one.

Guys can never be girls and girls can never be guys. So, don't keep asking your partner to be just like you. We are meant to be different so that we can do our part as a family.

So, to answer Cathy's question,

Why women have to bear the pain while giving birth?
Ans: If man were the only one to get pregnant, human would go extinct.

Why? Imagine a soccer fan watching his favorite player scores. Overjoyed, he shouts, jumps on the sofa up and down repeated, hugs his fellow buddies and CHEERS! Later on only he realize he's got a miscarriage yet again.

Why girls have to do all the house chores?
Ans: Guys would start destroying throwing everything instead of housekeeping it.

Male: Just throw it la, we can get a new one when we need it
Girls are more economical and would keep those old stuffs for future use
Female: "Keep the baby cage for our grandchildren"

Guys are still being treated as man of the house.
Ans: Guys can never be man of the house without a woman.

Guys are usually the main bread winner if not the sole one. Being focused on his job, he will need his spouse to take good care of the house.

In the end of the day, there's a saying -

Behind Every Great Man There's A Great Woman. Agree?

Except! Unless! In certain extreme, very extreme rare cases, where such powerful female does exist, then she would be able to be the woman of the house.

Here's a potential candidate:

Picture courtesy of Acey Tang